#Grievinghurts : The Loss of a Daughter’s Dream Mother

  Recently, my husband and I placed my mother under Hospice care. That was a hard decision! My mother and I have had a perilous relationship all my life. We never connected in a healthy mother-daughter relationship which has caused me to repeat many of those unhealthy learned behaviors. I’m thankful for those in my life… Continue reading #Grievinghurts : The Loss of a Daughter’s Dream Mother

#rape #abortion Now #secretsnomore

Triggers: rape, abortion and child abuse We all have secrets. I’ve learned if those secrets aren’t told, if they’re not allowed to be released then our body and mind will become infected! It’s been proven that many of our physical issues can be traced back to our holding onto secrets. Secrets are poison! I recently… Continue reading #rape #abortion Now #secretsnomore

You Were Meant for Love

Kari Kobe has a song out, The More I Seek You, that totally wrecks me!! I listen to it over and over. We were all created for LOVE….to receive love, to give love! We were created with a deep need to be loved and accepted! So many times that doesn’t happen in our lives. Maybe… Continue reading You Were Meant for Love

3 Ways for Important Self-care

Don’t forget to take care of yourself! Learning to love myself has been a great challenge for I was taught from birth I was worthless and unloved and unlovable! Ahhh…but I am discovering what a lier all those folks were! However I’ve also discovered it’s so much easier to listen to and believe those lies… Continue reading 3 Ways for Important Self-care

You are worthy!

You….yes you…are such a beautiful individual!! You have purpose and value! You have a great destiny! You are precious in His eyes! You were born with a purpose, a reason! There is One who longs to walk with you! He can give you peace in a chaotic world! His sweet love! Surrender. No fear. Purposeful.… Continue reading You are worthy!

Untitled

In my first book I share trauma from my childhood that really messed me up for years. I am now into some very determined and deep healing! I’ve fought depression…. anxiety….suicidal thoughts and much more. I refuse to allow those who decided to steal my innocence the power to keep me all cowered down in… Continue reading Untitled

Under the Spreading Apple Tree….it happened

(Possible trigger warning) The blooming apple tree, for me, signifies spring is indeed springing though this year there seems to be some confusion on this season if its coming or going. Its been warm then it gets really cold and even attempts to snow but that makes the seasons interesting in Kentucky! It’s never boring!… Continue reading Under the Spreading Apple Tree….it happened

Healing Child Abuse and the Mother

She carried me in her womb for nine months and raised me until I left home. That doesn’t mean she was a good mother. Maybe she did the best she could though! Just as there is a dash on our tombstone between our birth and death there should be a dash or some such marker… Continue reading Healing Child Abuse and the Mother

Fab Friday

No, I suppose not everyone would be able to declare today being fabulous. Sad isn’t it?! Mine’s been ok. Here it’s very cold. I don’t do cold well. I’ve often joked I musta been born in the wrong part of the country cuz I’d do much better in the South! Even so, I am ever… Continue reading Fab Friday